Something that has perplexed me is how much people change and adapt over time.
You see, I find it quite interesting how people change their demeanors, their personalities, their very being to adapt to the time and place they are living in. Who I am today is vastly different from the person I was four years ago. So much has happened. People change. And they will always keep on changing. That is just a fact of life. It is these change that cause so much trouble for people. People make promises, they build trust, they build entire civilizations and then one day, it all changes. And what may be left behind is melancholy, resent and fear for the unknown. It happened to Egypt. It happens to every relationship since time began. So long as we change, we will continue to be let down and hurt.
The way to find happiness is by realizing this, accepting it, and then living in the moment, with the acknowledgment of the future as well as the past that constitutes your memory. Dealing with the hurt does not have to be a depressing, overly dark experience. Dealing with it, is just that, a deal. A compromise. It is realizing that what you had previously is no longer there, but you as a being are, and that you can and will survive without it and must now learn to fill that void with something else. Something that will keep you advancing forward. To the future. Not living in a land of ghosts. In a way, life and your being are like a puzzle. Always shifting. Coming together in some manner. But always with holes and spaces. The entirety of your life is the picture itself. And until you die, you will never be able to complete the puzzle. Life is learning to live with the missing patches of an incomplete picture, not knowing what it is exactly and still appreciating it for the brilliance that it is. You will try constantly to make pieces fit into what you believe the picture to be, but the pieces will tell you where they go, eventually, never right away. Mastering that process, is happiness.
"One can be in love with several people at the same time, feel the sorrow with each, and not betray any of them."
— Gabriel García Márquez (via pavorst)
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I think I’ll actually start posting/writing on this thing…yeah…
That sounds like a good idea.
Starting…
Right…
Now.